Lifestyle| Friendship or Endship?


Hello everyone! 

So over the past few months my friend circle has grown and shrunk many times and it’s something that’s happened to me all through my life but the group of friends I have right now seem to be slowly fading away so I’m preparing myself for that. I know that when it eventually happens I will still have a few friends but no where near the number I have right now. Going from a large group of friends to almost none at all can be hard but I just have to let people make the decision that they think best for them and I have to do the same. So I’m going to start focusing more on myself, I spend so much of my time falling in line to whatever everyone else wants that I never really speak my mind, but not anymore! If I don’t agree with someone I’m going to say that I don’t agree with it. And if I need a me day I’m not going to go with everyone just because they’re all going, so what if I miss out on one day? I’ll spend time with the friends that want me there and see the others only when needed. And slowly start to faze them out of my life. And the people who want to stay and fight to be apart of my life will be there with me. I have been talking to old friends recently and they are friends that will always be in my life no matter what, one friend in particular is more like family and although we don’t talk everyday I still know she is there for me no matter what. That’s what I need right now, not friends sulking for silly things or stopping talking to me with no reason or explanation, I need friends that will always be there no matter what time of day or how long it’s been since we last spoke.

It’s funny how as you grow older the people you were once closest too could not be further away anymore but that’s just how it is and I need to realise that. Hopefully I’ll make new friends, ones that actually want to be apart of my life, and I’ll be able to find more happiness within them but for now I’m content with my feelings. 

Friendship is a strange thing and it can be a struggle to keep but if you’re not happy in one then you have a right to leave, just like with any situation, uncomfortable = a right to leave!  

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  1. Great post - I have also found that my friends have changed a lot these past couple of years. But, I truly believe that things happen for a reason, so the friends that have always stayed by your side are definitely the ones that are positively impacting your life :) Thanks for sharing!
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